Fluxy

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Call me a romantic, but I bet on its truth.

[quote=Fluxy]You won't notice a polite and kind person. They often look ordinary, plain like every other person, or they have some kind of flaw in their looks. But a person who is honest, friendly and willing to help you anytime, will in my eyes look more beautiful and those flaws if he has them will seem as the cute part of him.[/quote]

Really? There can't be people that are polite and kind, but are gorgeous too? Seems I have met a few on both sides of the gender spectrum. Dated a few too, granted I guess they are a rarer breed. As I used to be in a highly public working environment, I was afforded an opportunity to study people.

Beauty seems to be an asset that becomes an over burdened resource. Most people can't hold on to their looks as time passes. After they do, they realize they hadn't honed any other skills and are left wanting. There are of course those lucky enough to age gracefully, again not a normal occurrence.

Of course I have to bring up the unfortunate standard of the animal being. Human are visual creatures, our lives are predominated by the use the of this sense. So the first thing we will notice is an attraction to a person's physically beauty (mustn't forget the beauty is perceived and changes among each individual), it is an innate reaction. "Lust with potential" so to speak.

Doesn't mean we have to act on it, often a higher caliber person will allow the person to demonstrate their true character. Though this is a game in and of itself. For dating is often a game, where the two involved display their "plumage" or best qualities. The trick is to maneuver below the surface and dredge the truth.

Not often is a person straight forward from the start. I for one was with my first relationship, but it was a physical and an un-fulfilling one. My second one I was foolish enough to allow my past free reign. As such I started the relationship under assumed facts and within a short period had crafted quite the clever artifice. I also took the first step, by completely shattering the mask I wore, but the damage was done.

As such I strive to be one of those straight forward, no lying, no toying people. I can't let myself down again, I need to believe the principles I built up my notability around. "Word is bound" and I would rather die than besmirch my honor anymore.

Anyhow long story, but the overall point is there are taints and tarnishes in every person. Some where them more openly, some are scarred by them, and others let them raze all facets of being. You can find both with time and as such shouldn't give up hope. Romance is an amazingly beautiful thing, that I would hope never is lost to even the most jaded of lovelorn souls.